It’s crazy that we’re already half-way through December! Somehow the holidays seem to fly by every year, and I find myself longing to soak them in. I want to make sure I don’t miss the beauty of this Advent season amidst all the hustle and bustle.

Each year, I make a personal to-do list for the Christmas season like this one here. Jenna Kutcher’s Holiday To-Do List is also usually a good reminder for my enneagram 1 self that people and presence are way more important than things, and that those values should be guiding factors in all of our plans throughout this month.

Given that we’re halfway to Christmas, I have accomplished much of what was on my to-do list for the season–things like decorating, buying presents, planning for Holiday food, etc. I’m guessing that perhaps you’ve done some of those things too at this point.

So what I’m really hoping for in these last 2 weeks of December, is to reflect upon some questions that might help me (and us) to really slow down and soak in this Christmas season. To do the things you want to do, but don’t always get to do. To make time for what is really important.

So with 2 weeks left of December, ask yourself:

Have I sat down and really appreciated the Christmas decorations that we put up? Consider waking before everyone else (or staying up once everyone is in bed) and sitting for a few minutes by the tree. It’s become my favorite place to have a quiet time as of late.

Have I had time to reflect upon the meaning of Advent and what Jesus has done for us? I want to suggest that a free devotional, or Advent Cards or even a wreath could create a little space to reflect.

Have I gotten to hang out with some good friends this month? Even something as simple as dinner together or a gift exchange could fill your relational cup!

Have I enjoyed eating or drinking something festive? Not just consumed, but enjoyed. Hot chocolate, mulled wine and Christmas cookies are some of my favorites, to name a few.

Have I given to someone without expecting to receive in return? Giving to a food pantry, or making treats for the neighbors, or sending a surprise gift to a friend have been meaningful for me.

Have I been intentional with my spouse? A Christmas date night or even surprising them in some way this Holiday season, or playing board games under the Christmas tree are fun ways to be intentional.

Have I done something kid-like that makes me feel like myself? Gingerbread house making or watching Claymation Rudolph, having a Christmas music dance party or even going to see Christmas lights–whatever it is, do something that makes you feel like a kid again.

Have I watched my favorite Christmas movie yet or seen a new Hallmark Christmas premiere? Make some space to watch at least 1 movie that brings you some Holiday joy.

Have I worn something cozy or festive this season? Whether it’s a warm chunky scarf, an ugly sweater or a Holiday dress, take a picture in something that makes you feel festive.

Have I done something relaxing this season? Like read a book by the tree or go to bed early; take a bath while listening to Christmas music or watch a Christmas episode of my favorite show? Try and do one of those without multi-tasking or added distractions.

10 questions for reflection. I’m challenging myself (and you too) not to make this a to-do list or one more thing to check off, but just to reflect–ask the questions and see what sparks something for you. What are the things that will help you slow down and appreciate the last two weeks of Christmas? Once you know, make space to actually do them. I pray it will be life-giving for you. Merry Christmas, friend!